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Friday, June 27, 2008

Amazing People

It's always funny when you try to help someone. You stress over and over the consequences of their actions if they choose to continue carrying out their lives in such a manner.

And then you watch them fall flat on their faces. You help them back up with more words of warning for the future,

AND THEN THEY DO THE SAME THING!

OMG!!! How many times do you have to FAIL to learn?! How BADLY do you have to be MESSED UP to learn?

For me, once feeling like shit is usually enough to let me know what kind of things I want to / don't want to do anymore.

People are so frustrating. It's especially frustrating when someone you held extremely close to you becomes unrecognizable.


Wednesday, June 04, 2008

so bio has got me thinking....

Genetically, we're all supposed to be engineers to have empathy-- the ability to identify with another object.
That's what makes life so unique, precious, rich, worth living.

There's an ape that was observed to empathize with a bird-- helping an injured bird regain flight. A freakin' monkey, guys. Even a group of buffalo would protect its baby / friends if they were ever being hunted by lions.

I look around and I see humans, supposedly more superior, intellectual, and hell, half of us lack empathy.
We, the supposed "higher" beings are more selfish than regular animals. Look around and we see people pulling idiotic, selfish acts everyday. Though the gene is selfish, people are not programmed to be selfish. We're programmed to feel, understand. The rest is up to how we're raised.... which is a huge part of becoming the people we are. Nit picky people will always be nit picky. People who bitch will always bitch. People who can't think about others' welfare will always think about themselves.

Seriously, how is living purely for your own happiness and satisfaction.... in any way... fulfilling? You only care about yourself, and only care about what you get out of the situation. Can't you look at the other people around you and think that they might have it worse? Can't you then process that information, and HELP THEM instead of TAKE FUCKING ADVANTAGE OF NICE PEOPLE?!

God, people are messed up.

And here's something I've been wanting to say:
Stop the self pitying, attention seeking attitude. It's sad and not who you want to aim to be. We can do better.

It's a lot of everyday stuff that I see happening that's pretty much making me lose hope in the future of humanity. Most people are NOT the type who will think about others. As a race, we very are pretty darn selfish. The desire to surpass others, show off, have better things / look better (whatever the hell that means), if continued, is going to take over and pretty much be our downfall.

Have fun, future humans. The world's going to get way more fucked up in about 500 years.

Overall, I don't think I'm asking for much. What I do ask is that when you look at someone, learn to see some things through their eyes, stop giving people a hard time, stop complaining about your issues, don't pretend to be something you're not, and just BE A NICE HAPPY PERSON.

Hey, I think I just asked for too much.


Saturday, May 17, 2008

we're all too young to be digging our own graves.


observe, learn, adjust.

don't get stuck


Monday, May 05, 2008

What kind of a place would this world be.... if no one was willing to negotiate?

You take some, you give some. When others deserve better than you, don't bitch.


Wednesday, April 30, 2008

things you can't have: everything.


just something to keep in mind next time you open your mouth to complain.



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